The Myth of The "Good" Baby
The Myth of The “Good Baby” Seemingly one of the first things people ask a parent when they see a new baby; right after how old they are and their gender, is about whether they are a “good baby” or not. As a parent and person who has worked in a daycare for many years as well as a human that has been privileged to be around a large number of infants over the years I can honestly tell you this one thing: there is no such thing as an innately good or bad baby. We need to stop asking if babies are good and we need to stop making parents feel like they are somehow failing at parenting if their baby fails to measure up to this impossible and ridiculous standard of “good.” It is not fair to the parent but it’s even more unfair to the baby. What Qualifies As "Good?" Well meaning family and strangers ask if your baby is sleeping through the night, whether they cry a lot or if they feed well etc. All of the things a baby is "supposed" to do in order to be a sweet little a...